When you hold a clear picture of what you wish to do, be or experience, you are giving the Universe clear instructions to manifest it for you, and the way to receive it will be made clear to you. If you block your way with thoughts of “I can’t do that because…”, then you are also giving the Universe instructions to create these obstacles in your way to experiencing what you desire. Just focus on the desired result and you will have it.
If what you desire is something you can read about or watch on dvd, then do so, as this will make the visualisation (picturing) clearer.
I do not believe we are “here” (having a “human experience”) to mooch away our existence or to be unhappy. We are “here” to experience anything we choose to.
All of life comes to me with ease and joy and glory – Access Consciousness Mantra
NB: I think the Bible also says ask and you shall receive, and with faith anything is possible, but I do not know the exact quotes. 
